A letter to restaurant owners
Take your restaurant back
An open letter from one restaurant owner to another.
By Tony9 min read
I opened my restaurants to make a living. To support my family. Every owner knows that part.
But that's not the whole reason, and if you own a restaurant, you know it too. You do it because you love food. Because you want to be part of a community. Because there's nothing like a regular walking in and you already know their order — nothing like watching a room full of people enjoy something you cooked.
That's the job. That's the joy. I know it because I lived it.
I opened two spots in Jersey City — Daikon Carrot and Gong Cha. I poured everything I had into them. And in late 2025, I turned off the ovens, locked the doors, and walked away for the last time. It's one of the hardest things I've ever done, and I won't pretend otherwise. It broke me for a while.
What I did next was sit with it. A lot of thinking. A lot of honest, uncomfortable self-reflection about what actually went wrong. And when I finally went back through my numbers — line by line, every fee, every cut, every subscription — and traced where my money had really gone, what I found is the reason I'm writing this letter.
Here's what I found. There's a whole industry built on top of your restaurant, and almost none of it wants to cook. It wants a slice. And I found it the way most of us do — one "small" fee at a time.
I want to walk through it plainly, the way I wish someone had walked through it with me. Then I want to talk about how we take it back — because I promise you, it's not hopeless.
A quick, honest note: the exact numbers below are from each company's own public pricing at the time I'm writing this. They change them often — sometimes right when you sit down to compare. So don't just trust my figures; ask any vendor for their all-in cost in writing. The dated sources are at the bottom.
Everybody eats before you do
Every one of these companies says some version of the same thing: we put your profits first. They care about your margins. They're your partner. They're different.
Then payday comes, and somehow everyone got paid but you.
Look at who lines up for a piece of a restaurant: online ordering, reservations, waitlist, your POS, inventory management, the third-party delivery apps, digital marketing, SEO. Here's the part that took me too long to admit — they're not selling you junk. You actually need all of it to run a modern restaurant. That's exactly why it works. Not one of them stopped at a fair, flat price. They each found their own way to take a cut, forever.
So let's read the fine print together. Four traps. Here's how each one really works.
The sneaky platform fee
This is the cleverest move in the whole business, and it works on good owners every day.
Some ordering platforms don't bill you for the fee — they add it to your guest's order instead. owner.com, for example, has tacked a service fee (around 5% last I checked) onto orders placed right on your own site. And the pitch is exactly what you want to hear after a long shift: the customer covers it, so it barely costs you a thing.
Don't buy it. That fee is really just a price increase on your entire menu — one you didn't choose. Raise the price, you sell less; you know this in your bones, it's why you agonize over a fifty-cent bump on a burger. The platform made that call for you, on every order:
- Your guest pays more, so your food looks more expensive than it is — every add-on, every "should we get dessert?" gets a little less likely.
- Higher totals mean more abandoned carts — the most expensive kind of loss, the one you never even see.
- It's your name on that receipt, not theirs. The guest doesn't blame the platform. They blame you.
And this isn't just the small players. The delivery giants — Uber Eats, DoorDash, Grubhub — stack a service fee on top of everything else they already charge you, and pass it to your customer too. Their move is slicker: they'll waive that fee if your customer signs up for their membership — DashPass, Uber One. Read that again. They're using your order to train your customer to be loyal to them.
"It's free to you" is the most expensive sentence in this business.
And when a platform fee isn't passed to the guest, it shows up as a subscription instead. owner.com runs about $249/month plus 5% per order, or $499/month flat, on top of a setup fee that's run around $1,000. How many orders do you push just to break even — before you've made one extra dollar? Then, once your regulars get used to ordering there, you can't just turn it off. You're slammed every service, so you never find the day to switch. So you keep paying, and your margins never actually grow. You're renting the same online counter, month after month.
The delivery trap
You know this one. You can't live with them and you can't live without them.
They take 15–30% of the check — and realistically more once everything's stacked. On margins as thin as ours, that's not a slice. That's the whole dessert and half the entrée.
Most owners think the fix is to raise prices to cover the commission. But that's not really where the money goes. The bigger leak is the promotions. To show up in the app at all, you're pushed to run deal after deal — free delivery, buy-one-get-one, dollars off. And every one of those discounts goes to their customer, not yours. You're paying, twice over, to advertise to people the app owns. You raise your menu prices to survive it, your food starts to look expensive, and the guest quietly decides you're the one who got greedy.
That's the real trap. They own the customer — the app, the data, the relationship. When your own regular searches your restaurant's name, the app makes sure they order through it, and pay more to do it. You cannot outspend that.
You're not their partner. You're their marketing budget.
The middleman nobody asked for
This is the one that should make every owner mad, because it's the purest version of the whole game.
A guest decides they want to eat at your place — a friend told them, they loved it last time, or they just drove past. They pull up Google, type in your name, and go to book a table or place an order. They already chose you. The hard part — the food, the room, the reputation — you already did.
And right there, in the last three feet before they reach you, a company steps into the doorway and charges a toll. OpenTable runs $149–$499/month plus $1–$1.50 for every seated cover that comes through their network — to fill seats you'd have filled anyway. A busy dining room can hand them tens of thousands a year. Yelp does its own version, turning your reviews into leverage to sell you ads.
Here's what none of them will say out loud: the customer was already yours. Your guests already wanted to order from you, book a table with you, be rewarded by you. That relationship is the thing you built. These companies didn't create it — they wedged into the middle of it and started charging rent.
The Frankenstein stack
Now stack it all up. Because no single piece is the villain — the villain is the pile.
Online ordering. Reservations. Waitlist. Kiosk ordering. Loyalty and rewards. Email and marketing. SEO. And underneath all of it, your POS with its kitchen display and printers. Every one of those is a real thing a modern restaurant needs. Add up what they cost together, and for a lot of us there's simply nothing left at the bottom.
And it's so segmented. The truly great version of this — one app that does everything, beautifully — belongs to the billion-dollar chains. Starbucks, McDonald's, KFC, Popeyes. You've used their apps. You probably loved them. Somewhere in your head you decided a place like yours could never have that. So instead you stitch a Frankenstein together: owner.com for ordering, OpenTable for reservations, xtraChef for inventory, a web company (or a templated site you don't really own), and a POS where the processing rate is "decent" only until you notice you're leasing their printers, routers, kitchen display, and kiosks too.
That's the whole mess in one word: a pile of middlemen, each taking a cut to do one slice of what should be a single system — and not one of them brings you a customer you didn't already earn.
It's not hopeless — and here's why
I need you to hear this part, because being angry and stuck is the worst place to be, and I don't want to leave you there.
Start with the thing that hasn't changed, and never will: a restaurant is still about great food and great service. That's the whole business. It's what you're good at, it's what fills your room, and no app, no fee, and no middleman can do it for you. The one thing that actually matters was always yours — and it still is.
And here's the second: the technology was never the enemy. Your customers still want to order from you. They still want to book a table with you. They still want to be rewarded by you — not by an app wedged in the middle. That never went away. The model is the problem — the middlemen, the cuts, the fine print, the fee on your guest. All you've ever needed is a cost-effective way to give your customers exactly what they already want from you, without paying a toll on every order to do it.
And for the first time, the math has actually changed. The reason only the big chains ever had a great all-in-one app was cost — building it used to take a full engineering team and a budget only a giant could carry. AI changed that. It's now possible to build all of it — ordering, reservations, waitlist, loyalty, marketing — economically enough to put that same app-grade experience in an independent owner's hands, at a price a restaurant can actually live with. The tech stopped being the barrier.
That's my mission. It's why I started We Know Restaurants after I closed my own doors — so the next owner doesn't have to learn all this one fee at a time, the way I did.
The fix: KeepOS
So I built it myself. At that same desk, I taught myself to code with AI — no engineering team, no millions in the bank, the way it always took before.
I built the all-in-one the chains keep for themselves and named it KeepOS, because the whole point is that you keep what's yours. I run it like a flat utility bill, not a software casino — one price, everything on:
- One flat price — $150/month, billed yearly. No setup fee, no cut of your orders, no surprise tiers. The features that matter aren't locked behind a "Pro" upgrade you have to buy later.
- 0% commission, and never a fee on your guests. Not on orders, not at checkout. Your menu stays priced the way you set it, and your name on the receipt stays clean.
- One system instead of a Frankenstein stack. Your own website, online ordering, reservations, waitlist, and loyalty rewards — under your name, run from one dashboard. Not six vendors and six bills.
- You own your customers. Their orders, their data, their loyalty — yours, always. If you ever walk away, you take every bit of it with you.
I'm not a tech exec selling you a dream. I stood on the line, I closed my own doors, and I run my own salon — Cuteticles — on this exact system today. If it's good enough to protect my livelihood, it's good enough to protect yours.
You'll never be customer #4,000 to us.
Take it back
If you're tired — really tired — of everyone eating before you do, sit down with me. Book a free 30-minute call, directly with me.
And I mean this: it is not a sales call. I'm not going to pitch you or push a contract across the table. It's one owner who's been where you are, looking at your real numbers with you — the fees, the cuts, the fine print — and doing the math out loud, all-in. Whether you ever work with us or not, you'll walk away seeing exactly where your money's been going. Worst case, you get free advice from someone who's already paid for the lesson.
Or don't call anybody yet — the whole thing is open. No sign-up, no gate. Click through the guest app and the live dashboard and see for yourself how simple your operation could be.
Then let's take your restaurant back. It's time you ate first.
— Tony, founder of We Know Restaurants · former owner, Daikon Carrot & Gong Cha (Jersey City, NJ)
Sources & figures
Figures are from each company's public pricing and reporting at the time of writing (2026) and change often — verify current terms directly. Opinions are the author's own. Company names are trademarks of their respective owners; references here are for comparison and commentary only.